I work privately with a small number of individuals, couples, and families whose lives rarely fit neatly into a single category.

We may begin with a relationship, sexuality, purpose, a transition, your body, your spiritual life, or something harder to name. My work draws from multiple disciplines, so wherever we start, we can follow what actually matters. We can figure out where to begin together.

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A human life doesn't happen one dimension at a time.

A relationship concern can involve sexuality, family history, spirituality, identity, or patterns of adaptation. A question about purpose can lead us toward work, money, grief, or the relationships that shape how we understand ourselves. And sometimes what needs attention is remarkably practical: getting stronger, moving more, or rebuilding a relationship with your body.

What initially brings someone to me is often one part of a larger picture.

I call my approach Multidimensional Coaching because it allows us to understand what is happening within the larger context of a life. My background spans physiology, somatics, sexology, relationships, spirituality, meditation, movement, and other areas of human development, giving us multiple perspectives and practices to draw from as our focus evolves.

Sexuality is one of the dimensions I work with most deeply. This can include desire, sexual function, intimacy, shame, fantasy, kink and fetish, and parts of our erotic lives that feel difficult to understand or reconcile with the rest of who we are. My background in sexology and depth psychology allows us to explore this material with curiosity and discernment, including what it means to understand and integrate a desire without assuming it needs to be enacted.

What matters can change, and so can the relationship itself.

There may be seasons when we work closely together, sometimes more than once in a week. At other times, we may meet monthly, seasonally, or reconnect when something significant changes.

You might first come to me while navigating sexuality, dating, or purpose. Years later, the questions may involve partnership, marriage, parenthood, leadership, caring for aging parents, grief, or a major transition. At certain thresholds, our time together may include spiritual counsel, meaning-making, or the creation of ritual and rites of passage.

A developmental relationship can accompany more than one chapter of a life.

When something calls for expertise outside my scope, I work alongside therapists, physicians, and other practitioners as appropriate.

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STRENGTH, HEALTH & LONGEVITY

My work began with the body, and more than twenty years later, physical health remains one of the areas I understand most deeply.

I have spent my career studying how human beings become stronger, move better, improve their health, and maintain the physical abilities that allow them to participate fully in their lives. What has changed is the context in which I understand those questions.

Much of modern fitness is organized around extraction. More intensity, more discipline, more optimization, with no clear destination beyond the next goal.

I am interested in a different relationship with health and fitness.

There are times to push, times to recover, times to build toward a particular goal, and times to maintain what we have. Strength, cardiovascular fitness, mobility, nutrition, sleep, and recovery all matter. The larger question is whether the way we pursue them leaves us increasingly capable of inhabiting the lives we want to live.

Fitness should give us more life than it takes from us.

This perspective is the foundation of Steady Strength, EMUNAH's approach to physical education, and what I have come to think of as Regenerative Fitness: developing strength, awareness, movement literacy, and physical capacity through practices designed to support the body across a lifetime.

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INDIVIDUALS・COUPLES・FAMILIES

INDIVIDUALS

Personal development, sexuality, relationships, purpose, spirituality, embodiment, leadership, adaptation, and significant life changes.

COUPLES

Intimacy, sexuality, communication, conflict and repair, shared direction, marriage, parenthood, and individual development within partnership.

FAMILIES

Family dynamics, parenting, intergenerational patterns, shared values, rites of passage, grief, major transitions, and family legacy.

The scope of our work can change with what is needed.

You may begin working with me individually and later bring in a partner. Work with a couple may widen to include the family system, or narrow again when individual attention becomes useful. They are different scales through which we can understand and work with a life.

THE LARGER BODY OF WORK

Private work extends beyond our conversations. Everyone I work with privately receives one year of membership in Emunah Academy, with access to its courses, practices, community, and ongoing live gatherings.

I also draw from the larger body of work we’ve developed through the Academy when something is particularly relevant to what we are exploring together. A framework, practice, meditation, writing exercise, or piece of curriculum can give us shared language and something to work with between sessions.

This allows our time together to remain focused on what benefits most from individual attention: making sense of what is happening, discerning what matters, and applying what you are learning within the particular circumstances of your life.

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MULTIDIMENSIONAL ORIENTATION

For those who want a contained way to begin, Multidimensional Orientation is a two-part private process for taking a wider view of your life across past, present, and future.

Our first conversation gives us time to explore the dimensions of your life that matter most: what has shaped you, what is happening now, and where you want to go. Between sessions, I synthesize what we have explored, looking for patterns, connections, tensions, and what may deserve greater attention.

You'll receive that synthesis along with a selection of EMUNAH frameworks, practices, and questions chosen to support what we uncover. We then meet again to work through it together, clarify what feels most important, and identify where to begin. Your Orientation also includes one year of membership in Emunah Academy, so you can continue exploring and applying what is most relevant to you.

The investment is $500. If you decide to continue into ongoing private work, the full $500 is applied toward your first eight-session retainer.

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HOW PRIVATE WORK BEGINS

I keep my private practice intentionally small so I can offer the depth, continuity, and responsiveness this kind of work requires.

Ongoing private work typically begins with an eight-session retainer. This gives us enough continuity to understand what is happening, establish a shared direction, and begin applying what we discover.

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IN-PERSON WORK

Some dimensions of development are best explored through the body itself.

My in-person practice centers around Somatic Spacework, an embodied, hands-on modality developed through more than twenty years of work across physiology, movement, somatics, sexuality, meditation, and human development.

Somatic Spacework can include touch, assisted movement, breath, attention, imagery, story, and stillness, with the experience shaped responsively around the person and what emerges. I work with people of all genders, and sessions may include either non-sexual or sexological hands-on work.

The sessions are approached with careful preparation, clear consent and boundaries, thoughtful pacing, and attention to how what happens in the session becomes integrated into the larger context of your life.

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SEMINARS, WORKSHOPS & RETREATS

I create private immersions for families, friends, couples, communities, professional groups, and organizations.

These experiences are designed around the people involved and what they want to explore together. They can take the form of a focused seminar, a day or weekend workshop, a multi-day retreat, or another format shaped around the purpose of the gathering.

I also teach live seminars through EMUNAH and make select EMUNAH programs available for groups to experience together as private cohorts.

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PRACTICAL QUESTIONS

Everything else you might want to know

  • Most of my private coaching takes place virtually, which allows me to work with people wherever they live. I also offer Somatic Spacework, my in-person hands-on modality, including both non-sexual and sexological work.

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  • It depends on what we are working with and what season of life you are in. There may be periods when meeting weekly or more frequently makes sense, followed by a shift toward biweekly, monthly, or more occasional conversations. We can adjust the cadence as the work develops.

  • Yes. Private clients can reach me by text or voice message between sessions for questions, reflection, accountability, or simply to share something while it is happening. I typically respond within one business day.

    Some clients use this access regularly and others rarely do. When something deserves more time or attention than messaging allows, we'll give it space in a session.

  • Yes. You may begin working with me individually and later bring in a partner or family member. The scope of our work can expand or narrow depending on what is happening and where attention would be most useful.

  • Yes. Private immersions can be created for an individual, couple, family, group of friends, community, professional group, or organization. This might mean setting aside dedicated time for a personal getaway, gathering people for a workshop or retreat, or creating another format around a particular question, transition, or shared area of interest.

    The format and focus are shaped around the people involved, what brings them together, and what they want to explore.

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  • Multidimensional Coaching is developmental work that draws from physiology, depth psychology, somatics, sexology, contemplative practice, relationships, and other areas of human development. Some of what we explore may also arise in therapy, but Multidimensional Coaching is not psychotherapy or a substitute for mental health care.

  • Yes. Many of the people I work with also have therapists, physicians, or other practitioners supporting their health and development. When useful, and with appropriate consent, I am comfortable collaborating with other professionals so that each of us can contribute from our respective areas of expertise.

  • The initial retainer gives us enough continuity to establish the work together. From there, we can continue at a similar cadence, meet less frequently, take space, or reconnect when another season or significant transition brings something new into focus.

  • Current rates, retainer details, and payment options are available before you schedule an inquiry.

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