A Whole-Systems Approach to
Sexuality and Life
Sex is deeply connected to every aspect of who we are. To truly thrive, we must integrate our sexuality within the broader context of our lives. My approach helps you achieve this by focusing on:
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Internal
Shifting Patterns: Releasing what the nervous system holds and learning how to not only regulate and co-regulate, but expand your capacity to receive and hold pleasure-states in all areas of your life. Reframing shameful desires and integrating shadow.
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Interpersonal
Relationships and Communication: Building healthy, honest connections, helping you and the people you love and are intimate with be more honestly connected and fulfilled in both needs and desires.
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Intergenerational
Develop Sexual Maturity: Heal family patterns; choose new, conscious ways of relating to your sexuality; and pass on healthier ways of understanding, relating to, and talking about sex to the next generation.
All while learning new skills that you can immediately put to use to increase pleasure and connection in your life right away.
What to Expect
As a certified Sexologist and Authentic Tantra® practitioner, I offer trauma-informed holistic healing designed to integrate body, mind, spirit, and sex.
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Learn about your physical body, the subtle energy body, and nervous system, and of course, those of any partners you may have.
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There are many different frameworks and practices that I might introduce you to. The journey is completely tailored to you, your needs, challenges, desires, and goals,
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Find more joy and fulfillment in all areas of your life.
Grow your capacity to identify, communicate, and deliver pleasure opportunities to yourself and others.
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I believe in taking an integral approach to all areas of life, which means transcending and including all of who we are.
So while I am trained in a very specific lineage of Tantra, I meet you where your are to develop personal practices that are an ideal and appropriate fit for you.
Trauma-Informed Lover
Instant access to 3.5 hours of self-paced audio, video, + PDF material that will improve your sex life forever.
Become a better, more confident lover by understanding and proactively working with the nervous system in your sex life.
So you can know without a doubt that you are bringing your lover more pleasure than harm.
So that you can understand and skillfully respond to a wide range of trauma triggers that come up in sex.
So you can deepen pleasure and connection no matter what arises.
So that you can meet your lovers with skillful presence and deep understanding.
So that you can provide deeper levels of pleasure through presence.
So that you, and they, can experience the healing power of sex.
Why This Works
When we work together, each session is tailored to your needs, ensuring your path to well-being is unique and evolving. I will never bring guilt, shame, or judgment in our work together.
I am committed to continuous learning and growth, supporting you in becoming the most whole, integrated version of yourself.
You can always ask me about the unhealthy aspects of fitness, spirituality, tantra, and neo-tantra. The issues in these industries and communities are many, and they only can be healed through proactive and open dialogue.
These shadows can negatively impact our lives, and it's important to recognize them to make informed choices, especially when it comes to something as easily abused as sexuality.
I continually check myself and my work for integrity, and am committed to always learning and growing. My goal is to support you in becoming the most whole, integrated version of yourself, while I strive to do the same.