Hands-On Somatic Healing
& Sexological Guidance
Grounded in physiology, fascia, and trauma-informed care.
I work with the body as the intelligent system that it is.
Through skilled touch, breath, and awareness, I can help you release chronic tension, restore sensation, and reconnect to your pleasure, trust, and vitality.
This is structured, ethical, hands-on work for people seeking depth, not novelty.
All work unfolds through consent, pacing, and professional boundaries.
Why So Many Bodies Are Bracing
Most people live with a level of tension they have learned to treat as normal. Tight shoulders, a shallow breath, a jaw that never fully softens, and a background sense of urgency or vigilance, even when nothing is obviously wrong. Over time, the body adapts to stress by staying slightly “on,” holding itself together just in case.
This is not a personal failure. It is a nervous system adaptation.
When experiences are overwhelming, prolonged, or insufficiently supported, the body does what it is designed to do: it braces. Muscles tighten, breath becomes constrained, sensation narrows, and attention shifts toward monitoring and control. What begins as protection can quietly become a baseline state.
Many people move through the world either over-activated, anxious, driven, restless, and unable to fully settle, or under-activated, numb, disconnected, fatigued, and cut off from sensation or desire. These patterns are extremely common, and they are not pathological. They are intelligent responses to the conditions we have lived in.
Add to this the chronic pressures of modern life, including pace, productivity demands, relational strain, and constant input, and the body often never receives the signal that it is safe to fully let go. Unprocessed stress and experience do not disappear; they remain stored as tension, holding, and what many people describe as a kind of “stuck charge” in the body.
This affects far more than comfort. Chronic bracing shapes how much pleasure the body can receive, how safe intimacy feels, how deeply one can rest, and how available confidence, creativity, and meaning feel from the inside. Desire may feel muted or compulsive, connection may feel effortful, and even success can feel oddly unsatisfying.
Nothing is wrong with you. Your body adapted intelligently.
The work begins by helping the body recognize that it no longer needs to hold everything together on its own, and by creating the conditions where it can slowly and safely release what it has been carrying.
Sexual Energy as a Healing Pathway
Sexual energy is often misunderstood in ways that limit how much life the body is allowed to feel.
In this work, sexual energy is understood as life force: the body's capacity for sensation, responsiveness, curiosity, and aliveness. It’s the same current that animates creativity, connection, emotional depth, and the felt sense of being fully here.
Because of this, sexuality is often where trauma and healing converge.
Early experiences of touch, safety, closeness, absence, or intrusion leave impressions in the nervous system. When those experiences are overwhelming or insufficiently supported, the body adapts by constricting sensation, dampening desire, or channeling sexual energy in ways that feel compulsive, disconnected, or confusing. These adaptations are not failures. They are protective strategies.
Sexuality often becomes the focal point because it carries so much charge.
As the body begins to feel safer, more present, and more stabilized, sexual energy naturally becomes more available. Sensation widens. Breath deepens. Pleasure becomes possible again. In this context, pleasure is not something to chase; it is a signal that the system is regaining capacity.
Pleasure and orgasm are not goals in this work. They are indicators of a nervous system that can tolerate sensation, remain present, and allow experience to move rather than becoming stuck. When sexual energy is approached with awareness, pacing, and skill, it becomes a powerful pathway for healing, one that can access layers of the body and psyche that talk alone often cannot.
As stabilization increases, sexual capacity often expands naturally.
For some people this may include sustained arousal, multiple orgasmic waves, non-ejaculatory orgasm, or forms of pleasure that feel qualitatively different from what they have known before. These experiences are not something I aim to produce directly. They tend to emerge as a byproduct of safety, presence, and reduced bracing in the body, often alongside increased emotional range, groundedness, and self-trust.
This is why sexual energy, when engaged responsibly, often accelerates healing. It works directly with the systems that govern safety, attachment, emotion, and meaning, supporting integration rather than overwhelm, and depth rather than spectacle.
This approach is not about peak experiences or quick fixes. It unfolds through patience, curiosity, and a willingness to slow down, as you learn how your body organizes experience and how it can reorganize when the right conditions are present.
At the same time, this work is designed to meet people where they are.
Not everyone begins by working directly with sexual energy, and that is both common and appropriate. Many people start with non-sexual hands-on somatic healing focused on fascia, breath, sensation, and nervous system stabilization before ever exploring sexological dimensions. Others remain entirely within that terrain and still experience profound shifts in ease, embodiment, and self-trust.
Sexual energy is not an entry requirement. It is part of a broader spectrum of work that unfolds through consent, pacing, and readiness. What matters most is not what we work with, but how: with presence, respect, and attention to the body’s timing.
For those ready to meet sexuality with maturity and presence, it becomes one of the most precise tools for healing available.
What This Work Actually Looks Like
Hands-on somatic healing and sexological guidance unfold across a range of possible approaches. Nothing is assumed, rushed, or prescribed in advance. The direction sessions take is shaped collaboratively through conversation, consent, and ongoing attunement to what your body is ready for.
Below is an overview of the kinds of work that may be included.
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Many people begin here, and some remain entirely within this terrain.
This work focuses on helping the body release chronic holding through skilled, non-sexual touch and supported stretching. Sessions may include gentle to deep contact, supported positioning, guided movement, and attentive awareness of sensation. The intention is to support nervous system stabilization, increase body awareness, and create the internal space needed for areas of tension or numbness to soften at their own pace.
As space becomes available, the body’s own intelligence begins to reorganize experience, restoring responsiveness, coherence, and a felt sense of wholeness that was never actually lost, only protected.
This alone can lead to profound shifts in ease, embodiment, emotional clarity, and self-trust.
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Fascia is the connective tissue network that holds structure, memory, and sensation throughout the body.
This aspect of the work involves slow, precise touch and stretching to engage restricted or guarded tissue. Fascia-focused work can bring awareness to long-held patterns of protection, often releasing sensation, emotion, or insight as the tissue responds.
By working directly with the connective tissue system, the body is given the mechanical and sensory conditions it needs to reorganize patterns that have been held in place for years, sometimes decades.
This work is always paced carefully, with attention to breath and feedback, allowing the body to reorganize without force.
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Throughout all hands-on work, breath and awareness play a central role.
Guided breath, subtle cues, and attention to internal sensation help your nervous system move toward greater stabilization and safety. As your body settles, sensation becomes clearer and more tolerable, making it possible to feel without becoming overwhelmed.
At times, I may guide you through short, personalized visualization or body-awareness practices that help your system shift more easily into this settled state. These experiences are simple, grounded, and tailored to what your body is ready for, helping you sense where tension is held, where breath can move more freely, and how your body already knows how to soften when given the right support.
This is not a separate technique. It is the foundation that supports everything else we do together.
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For some people, and only when it feels aligned and appropriate, the work may include sexological guidance and hands-on contact with the genitals.
This is never assumed, expected, or required. When included, it is approached with the same care, consent, and attunement that shape all other aspects of the work. The focus is not performance or outcome, but awareness, sensation, and integration.
Sexological work may support healing around desire, pleasure, intimacy, boundaries, or early conditioning. It unfolds only when the body is ready and when there is clear mutual understanding.
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Every session is shaped through ongoing communication and consent. We move at the pace your nervous system can genuinely receive, not at the pace of an idea or expectation.
Nothing is done to you. Everything is done with you, in context, and with respect for your body’s timing.
Fascia is the body’s connective tissue network. It wraps muscles, organs, nerves, and bones, linking everything into a single responsive system. More than structural support, fascia plays a central role in sensation, movement, coordination, and perception.
It is also where experience is held.
Stress, injury, emotional shock, and long-term adaptation do not live only in memory or thought. They register in tissue tone, elasticity, and responsiveness. Over time, unprocessed experience can appear as areas of tightness, numbness, restriction, or sensitivity, patterns the body learned in order to cope.
This is why fascia-informed touch can reach places that talk alone often cannot.
When touch is steady, precise, and attuned, it provides information the nervous system can use to reassess safety. Tissue begins to soften, sensation returns, and awareness widens. What releases may be physical, emotional, or simply a felt sense of relief and clarity.
When emotion arises, it is not something to provoke or dramatize. It is understood as physiological, a natural response as held patterns unwind and the system regains movement and choice.
Release is never forced. The conditions for organic release are carefully created.
For a deeper exploration of how fascia shapes trauma, sensation, and healing, you can read my full essay here.
Fascia: The Missing Link
Beneath structure and sensation, the body operates through a subtler layer of organization that governs charge, flow, responsiveness, and coherence.
This approach engages that layer directly.
It works from the inside out, using breath, touch, awareness, sound, and conversation to help the body metabolize experiences that were once too much, too fast, or not enough for too long.
Trauma, in this view, is not defined by an event alone. It is defined by what the body was unable to fully process at the time. What could not move forward remains held as tension, guarding, or unfinished sensation.
When conditions of safety and presence are established, long-held energy begins to move.
At sufficient depth, this can resemble the kind of insight, emotional release, and reorganization people often associate with altered-state experiences, but without substances, intensity, or loss of agency. The catalyst here is not chemistry. It is attunement.
Presence and safety are what allow the system to open.
Grounded in physiology and lineage-based training in subtle body awareness, the process remains precise rather than abstract. Sensation is tracked. Response is observed. Integration is prioritized.
The result is a hands-on process that can reach deep layers of stored sensation, emotion, and lived experience while remaining coherent, ethical, and stabilizing.
Working with the Body’s Deeper Intelligence
The Three-Session Healing Container
This work is held within a clear, intentional structure designed to support safety, depth, and real integration.
Rather than offering one-off sessions, I work within a three-session container that allows your body and nervous system to orient, explore, and integrate without being rushed.
Session 1
Intake & Orientation (Online)
This first session is devoted to understanding you.
We explore your history, current patterns, intentions, and what your body has learned over time. I listen for recurring themes across physiology, relationships, stress responses, and desire, and begin mapping what your system is ready to work with.
You will also receive selected educational resources, including guided practices, breathwork tools, and access to the EDGE, my foundational framework for understanding the physiological and psychological dynamics behind this work.
Session 2
Hands-On Session (In Person)
The second session is the primary hands-on experience, held for approximately two hours in an unhurried setting.
Time is held generously so the process can unfold at the pace your body can genuinely receive, without clock-driven pacing.
Depending on what is appropriate, this may include non-sexual somatic healing, fascia-focused bodywork, breath and awareness practices, and when aligned, sexological guidance. Everything is shaped through consent, communication, and nervous system stabilization.
Session 3
Integration & Next Steps (Online)
Integration is where change becomes usable.
We make sense of what emerged, how your system responded, and what is shifting. Together we translate the experience into practical next steps for daily life, relationships, embodiment, and self-practice.
You will leave this session with clear integration guidance, supportive practices when helpful, and an understanding of what level of continued support, if any, feels appropriate moving forward.
This three-session arc protects the integrity of the process.
It allows your nervous system time to orient, explore, and integrate so that change is not rushed, fragmented, or surface-level.
Because of this, new clients begin within the three-session container rather than booking one-off sessions.
Why This Structure Matters
Investment
The three-session healing container is $1,800, inclusive of all three sessions and selected educational resources that support integration throughout the process.
After completing the container, ongoing hands-on sessions are available for established clients, when appropriate, at $600 per session (approximately two hours).
People arrive here from many different places.
What they share is a readiness to listen more closely to their bodies and to the signals of desire, connection, and pleasure as they move through their lives.
The People I Serve
Women
Many women come sensing there is far more pleasure, erotic depth, and internal freedom available than they have been able to access. Often there is a long history of adaptation: being capable, caring, and strong while learning to minimize sensation, desire, or softness.
This space invites a return to the sensual, responsive self beneath roles and responsibility, and an exploration of pleasure as something that emerges naturally when the body feels safe enough to receive.
Couples
Couples reach out when love is present but desire feels distant, inconsistent, or difficult to access together. Communication may be strong, yet intimacy feels predictable, muted, or shaped by unspoken patterns. Many couples also arrive navigating non-traditional dynamics such as open relationships, kink, power exchange, or long-held desires that have never felt safe to name.
This process supports couples in understanding how nervous system patterns, stress, and relational roles shape attraction, creating space for intimacy that feels alive, consensual, and genuinely shared.
Men
Men often arrive carrying complex erotic identities, fantasies, or long-standing challenges around arousal, performance, or shame. Some feel disconnected from their bodies; others feel driven by desire they do not fully understand or trust.
This offers a grounded, ethical container where desire can be explored without secrecy or fragmentation, allowing sexuality to become more integrated, embodied, and self-directed rather than something to manage or suppress.
Practitioners & Healers
Practitioners, healers, and seekers often come when they recognize the multidimensional nature of sexual energy and its influence on inner life, relationships, and the wider world.
Many sense the limits of existing models and are looking for approaches that honor psychological depth, somatic intelligence, and ethical rigor. In these cases, I am honored to serve not only as a practitioner but also as a professional mentor, supporting the integration of lived experience with deeper understanding.
I initially came seeking somatic support for long-held tension and discomfort in my body while feeling curious, but cautious, about the sexual aspects of the work. Over time, as my body settled and I felt more at ease, something shifted naturally. Sexuality became part of the process without being forced or rushed.
The experience expanded not only how I feel in my body, but how I relate to myself and my life as a whole.
— Woman, 30s
Client Reflections
Working with Seth felt like a breath of fresh air. What stood out most was how genuinely invested he was in helping us understand our bodies and deepen our connection, rather than chasing any particular outcome.
The way he connected breath, the nervous system, and subtle energy patterns helped everything finally click. Breathing and visualization allowed me to relax more fully into arousal and experience pleasure with greater depth and ease than I had before.
We left feeling more connected, informed, and at ease in our bodies than we had in a long time.
— Couple, 40s
As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, I had accepted that certain patterns in my body were simply ‘the way I am.’ Working with Seth helped me understand why my body adapted the way it did and that those patterns were not permanent.
Through a slow, steady process grounded in physiology and care, I have been able to release long-held tension and access pleasure in ways I never thought were possible. What mattered most was how safe and unrushed the work felt.
— Man, 30s
I’ve been a highly sexual person my entire life, and this experience went far beyond what I thought was possible. I felt met with respect, skill, and depth, and something opened that I did not know was still available to me. It was nothing short of incredible.
— Woman, 50s
The experience gave me a level of comfort and confidence in my body that I hadn’t realized was possible.
— Woman, 60s
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Sessions are therapeutic, consent-based somatic and sexological healing.
They are grounded in physiology, trauma-informed care, and professional ethical standards.
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No. Sessions do not involve reciprocal touch, mutual sexual interaction, or intercourse.
The focus is therapeutic somatic and sexological healing within clear professional boundaries.
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No. Many people begin with non-sexual somatic healing and never include sexological components.
The direction of the work is always collaborative, paced, and consent-based.
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Yes. Many clients receive guided practices, breathwork, educational frameworks, and integration materials that support both the hands-on sessions and daily life.
All clients also receive full access to the EDGE, my foundational framework for understanding the physiological, psychological, and relational dynamics that support this work.
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I work with clients throughout South and Central Florida, and regularly see clients in New York City, Los Angeles, and Portland.
Many clients also travel to the Treasure Coast for private sessions, with a variety of nearby accommodations available for those coming from out of town.
I also offer private immersion experiences, from one-day to multi-day formats, integrating this work with broader somatic, relational, and embodiment practices.
These experiences can be arranged on the Treasure Coast, in the cities where I regularly work, or in other locations worldwide by request, with details coordinated in advance.
Frequently Asked Questions
Working Together
If this work resonates with you, the next step is a simple conversation. We begin by speaking about what you are experiencing, what you are hoping for, and whether this feels like a good fit for both of us.
Hands-on sessions are offered within a three-session container designed to support depth, pacing, and integration. Structure, preparation, and scheduling are reviewed together once we determine that working together feels aligned.
Preparation and integration sessions are offered remotely worldwide. Hands-on sessions take place in private, carefully selected settings. I regularly work in New York, Los Angeles, Portland, Palm Beach, and Miami, and travel to other locations may be available by request.
There is no pressure to move forward. The purpose of the initial conversation is simply to explore whether this work feels supportive for where you are now.
Prefer to start immediately?
Secure your three-session container here.